Category Archives: life oh life

striving for perfection and being good enough.

i have all these thoughts in my head, today im rapid cycling, and its triggered by real life situations. i feel quite overwhelmed and very tired after monitoring my mood every second of today and i still havent made it to bed. … Continue reading

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Hair. i need your input!! (sneaky mini prize too)

love it, or hate it, most of us have it. not icky body hair. but on your head. and i used to be such a hair geek. worked in a hair salon when i was a teenager, loved it. wanted … Continue reading

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lollies are my friend

on days like today. my assessment results came back to me this morning. disappointed in myself is a complete understatement. 58/100 yes it is a pass. just. no it isnt good enough. my thoughts are, i didnt give myself enough … Continue reading

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The negative thought spiral of doom

i have these feelings alot, negative thoughts. not as often as i used to have them, but they are still there. they are destructive, they cause harm in so many ways, internally they slowly eat away at my self esteem, … Continue reading

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I cant save the world. as much as i try.

Especially if i cant save myself. there is nothing more in the world that i want right now, than for all my friends and family to be happy, for everyone to be healthy, for finances to be easy, for life … Continue reading

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You are in control.

Sometimes it feels like life has taken a turn for the worst. You feel like you have lost control of your family, your health, your children are too naughty, the animals are playing up. you cannot control what people are … Continue reading

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Children and guilt.

seriously, as a parent, will we ever not have a rest from this? ha! i doubt it! no matter if its guilt inflicted on us by our own thoughts, or by the children themselves, it is a reality for every … Continue reading

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